Welcome!
I’m an educator and educationalist, author, and passionate advocate for neurodiversity and inclusion. My journey in education and writing has been profoundly shaped by personal experiences and a deep commitment to creating a more inclusive world for everyone of all abilities.
My Story
Growing up with my younger brother, who has a complex intellectual disability, I’ve witnessed firsthand the challenges and triumphs that come with neurodiversity. His unique perspective and unwavering high spirit and sense of humour have been a constant source of inspiration for me. This personal connection has fueled my dedication to advocating for inclusion in education and for a true sense of belonging in our communities.
Book Contribution
I had the privilege of making a contribution to a book about Belonging for People with Profound Intellectual and Multiple Disabilities. This project allowed me to share my brother’s story and our joint journey, highlighting the challenges imposed by a disabling society and the impact of acceptance.
Academic Contributions
I’ve also co-authored several academic articles focusing on inclusive research methods. These articles delve into innovative approaches that ensure research is accessible and participatory. As a researcher, my main interest has been in methodologies that bridge the gap between theory and practice, providing actionable insights that educators, researchers, and practitioners can use to foster inclusion in various settings.
The Tangram Method
My recent independently published book, “The Tangram Method,” represents a significant milestone in my career. Though currently out of print, while the second edition is on its way, the book brings an inspiring fictionalised account of how I developed the method combined with a detailed description of how to employ it through structured conversations to foster unmasking among neurodivergent young people, allowing them to recognise and empower their true selves. The stories of the young people who inspired this method are interwoven throughout the book, providing a rich narrative backdrop to the practical guidance offered. The book has been followed by an accompanying practitioner manual filled with activities that can be used as they come or adapted to individual needs as well as a set of neurodiversity awareness play cards, that can be acquired ready to use or for download and adaptation/personalisation.
Moving Forward
As I continue to write and advocate for neurodiversity and inclusion, my mission remains developing approaches to promote the environment where everyone feels valued and understood. Furthermore, what if understanding neurotypical behavior could be as intuitive as piecing together a puzzle?
In my next book, still founded on the innovative Tangram Method, I am flipping the script, now offering autistic young adults and late-diagnosed individuals a powerful framework to better navigate relationships with their neurotypical counterparts. Through the introduction of new protagonists, now seven vivid neurotypical characters, each representing a distinct personality type, readers will uncover the unspoken rules, hidden social cues, and emotional nuances that often shape neurotypical interactions. More than just a guide, this book ambitiously tackles the double empathy problem from another angle, providing practical strategies to bridge the gap and foster genuine, mutual understanding. With mutual empathy, clarity, and creativity, this could become a map to building more connected, authentic relationships. Watch this space!
On the horizon
I’m thrilled to let you know that I’ll be attending the Autism and ADHD Show in London on the 20th and 21st of June 2025 at the Business Design Centre, stand E20. I’ll be bringing my book, The Tangram Method, and, hopefully (I’m working hard on this) my second, yet-to-be-titled book ready to launch at the event. I will also have a talk slot on Saturday, which I still don’t know the exact time.
The opportunity to engage with a community passionate about celebrating neurodiversity and promoting neuroaffirming ideas, practices, services, and products fills me with excitement. I’ll keep you updated on my progress and look forward to sharing more details soon.
Event Details:
Dates and Times:
Friday, 20th June 2025: 9:30 AM – 4:30 PM
Saturday, 21st June 2025: 10:00 AM – 4:00 PM
Location: Business Design Centre, 52 Upper Street, London N1 0QH
Tickets: Book in advance to save 20%.
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Getting There:
Public Transport: The venue is a short walk from Angel Tube Station and easily accessible from King’s Cross St. Pancras.
Parking: On-site parking is available; use postcode N1 0PW for navigation.
BUSINESS DESIGN CENTRE
I look forward to seeing you there!
Thank you for visiting my website. I hope my work inspires you to embrace neurodiversity and champion inclusion in your own communities. Together, we can make a difference and ensure that everyone has the opportunity to shine.
Warm regards,
Hilra Gondim Vinha
Note: I removed the link to the story of this blog from the main menu, but you can still access it here.